Physical Attraction, Why is it a Problem for Some?

1. Fear of sexual assault.
2. Obsession with a cute guy or girl at work. 
3. Being accused of sexual harassment.
4. Being a victim of sexual harassment.

     All of these topics and more come into play when we think of physical attraction.  One might wonder; "Why is there such a problem for some?" "Why can't we tell someone we like the way they look anymore and mean them no harm, but run the risk of being charged with sexual harassment?

                         FEAR OF SEXUAL ASSAULT

       Today, females feel that if a man gives them a compliment about their appearance, it is because he wants her and if the opportunity comes, she is as good as his.  With or without her consent.  However, is that realistic?  Most of the time this happens on the job, at work is the only place one would see that individual.  On the other hand, one does not need to wait until that person starts to stalk them, meaning seeing them everywhere you go, and finale finding them outside the window where you sleep with a guitar serenading you, to take action to keep yourselves safe, but just don't be to quick to press the panic button.  Men cannot be offended, for we live in a world that has made females feel unsafe. So be mindful.

                Obsession with a cute guy or girl at work

        One thing to remember, coworkers most of the time, do not know a thing about you so to be on the safe side, assume everyone around you is a total psycho and leave them alone.  This is because if they suspect that you want to have them against their will, that is the way they are going to behave.
So watch yourself and keep your compliments to yourself.  However, if they ask for your opinion, tell them: UGLY you ain't got no alibi u ugly! No, just kidding, just tell them you haven't noticed and leave it at that.  They are looking for trouble.

                       Being accused of sexual harassment.

         This is a serious offense and even if the alleged victim is mistaken we as men have to be understanding because we should love and respect women at all times and want them to feel safe around us and take their concerns seriously.  Play it safe and keep relationships with co-workers as professional as possible. Even then, there will be some that just don't have a clue. Despite the urge to 
Darth Vader-choke them, just walk away.

                        Being a victim of sexual harassment.

           This is the hardest to deal with because one needs their job, ones tend to put up with it even if you have no intention of giving in to the advances, especially if it is the boss that is making the advances.  Don't rock the boat though and don't be too obvious about keeping their hope alive though.
Post up many pics of your spouse or your whatever, and continue to keep it professional and in time it will fix itself.  If not just get a lawsuit and get paid. it is your right.

          In conclusion: Sticking with the theme of this blog; how does this address the issue of porn addiction?  Porn can be blamed for much of the bad and unwise behavior in this world.  One needs to think of this though.  In the new world to come under Jesus Christ rule, Jesus is going to heal every one of all the problems and sickness and then everyone alive then will eventually be one of the most beautiful people on the planet.  If we cannot get a grip on our views regarding physical attraction now, will we even be there? Word!

VON BRO'

P. S.
Just a side point:  Which clip from a song lyric best describes your style of dress.

1.  "We have a ministry so sacred, we must consider how we dress, our ministry is really important, Jehovah we er seeks to bless."
or:
2.   "If you want some hot and juicy meat, take another look at mine,
 If you looking for a tasty treat, all you got to do is stand-in line
If you are acken for some bacon".............stop. I think one would get the message.